The Horseless Rider is a solo sex position the targets the vulva. It’s especially good for those who enjoy broad stimulation in the crotch. People with very sensitive clitorises who don’t like the feel of direct contact targeted at their clit will like the feeling of this position.
All you need for this position is a pillow and a Satisfyer Sexy Secret panty vibe. Slip the vibrator into your underwear and secure it with the magnetic clip. Then, bunch the pillow up to make a ridge and position a leg on either side. In your straddling position, you can rub your vulva against the mound of the pillow, allowing the Sexy Secret to work its vibrating magic as you grind at the speed that does it best for you. Experiment with slow sexy figure eights with your hips, or hard and fast thrusts. There are plenty of patterns to try out with the panty vibe for even more variation.
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Rider on top positions are great for people who like to “run the fuck” as Betty Dodson would say. During penetrative sex, the rider controls the depth and speed. There’s no penetration in the horseless rider, but the rider still maintains the speed. By using the Satisfyer Connect app, you can also create patterns of vibrations that bring you to orgasm quickly while you move against the Sexy Secret, or keep you on the edge while you sensually enjoy the ride.
If you have a partner, the horseless rider allows some very erotic views for them to watch. Hand over control via the app while you straddle and let them join in your pleasure. Both large and small body shapes can get pleasure from this type of grinding position, the spread position of your legs and soft pillowy material between your thighs should help mitigate a lot of chafing issues. People who struggle with knee pain or are unable to get into a supported kneeling position may find the discomfort outweighs the fun.
For maximum enjoyment, a firmer pillow will offer greater resistance and a better surface to grind against. A toy mount or specifically designed sex furniture made with a high-density foam will hold its shape the best. It’s definitely worth the investment if you find this is a position you want to bring into regular rotation in your masturbation repertoire!