To get into the Ho Ho position, the giver sits on the floor if they can, depending on their ability level, leaning back and bracing themselves with their arms, hands on the bed (or floor) for support. The receiver sits between their partner’s legs, then leans back and places their ankles on their partner’s shoulders. The giver can maneuver from there to penetrate the receiver. We at Kinkly completely understand if this position is not physically accessible for you.

To create the greater intimacy this position is so good for, the receiver should tilt their head towards their partner to hold eye contact. If they can, they can prop themselves up on their elbows to help maintain the position without putting so much stress on their neck or trying to hold a crunch position for the duration. It may be a good idea to have a conversation with your partner regarding your chronic pain and disability level BEFORE, DURING, AND AFTER attempting this position.

Eye contact is one of the great ways to create much-desired intimacy and a steamy sexual bond between playmates, and there’s no better way to do this than by facing your playmate. Better yet, when there’s a solid amount of teamwork involved in getting that position right. There are other ways that partners can create intimacy with eye contact if this position doesn’t quite work for you.

This position is deliberate and visually stimulating, plus those feet are all for the taking if you’re into a bit of toe sucking or exploring the sensations of foot play.