Bussy is a slang term for the male anus. It is commonly used to refer to the anuses of submissive gay men, or bottoms.
The term bussy is mainly used within the queer community, especially by men considered “feminine,” called femboys. They might refer to their bussies when they want to have sex with someone, or the bussies of other people they believe are turned on or promiscuous.
The term bussy was first used online around 1992, but the queer community used it much earlier than this. It gained widespread, mainstream online usage around the mid-2000s. There are several theories about its origins. Some believe it is a portmanteau of the words butt or butthole and pussy, while others believe it’s a mix of the words boy and pussy.
Another modern interpretation is that bussy is a combination of bitch and pussy. It’s no coincidence that all interpretations of the word bussy feature the word pussy. The point is that like a pussy, a bussy gets penetrated (often by a penis.)
People may use the term bussy in casual conversations with friends or during sex. Some men may refer to their anus as a bussy during sex or foreplay. Gender-swapped alternatives to phrases women may say during sex, such as “Pound my bussy” and “Do you like my tight bussy?” may elevate a sexual experience.
While the anus has no natural lubrication, people may also say their bussy is wet when they see someone they find attractive. This phrase simply means they feel aroused. While their bussy isn’t physically wet, they feel the kind of deep arousal that women do when their pussies get wet.
The term bussy has also evolved to become more inclusive over time. While it’s primarily used to refer to the male anus, a transmasculine vulva may also be called a bussy.